"I'm First" Blog
Since 2019, students from VCU have contributed to the "I'm First" blog, an initiative hosted online by the nonprofit organization, UStrive. Irelyn Rogan, who is also a You First peer mentor, is our current blogger for 2023-2024. We nominated Irelyn because of her passion for giving first-generation college students a voice and for her work empowering them to embrace their first-gen identity. Check back often for her insights about what it's like to be a first-generation college student.
Irelyn explains in her own words why she wanted to be a blogger for this site.
What inspired me to blog
I was inspired to blog because being first-gen makes me feel like an outcast at times, and I want to help students like myself recognize that being first-gen is normal–not “weird”–and something to be proud of rather than ashamed of. Many of my friends are not first generation; this easily makes me feel different and out of place. My parents both went to college for a short period of time but did not graduate. For some reason, I tend to feel guilt and embarrassment over this.
Through being part of You First, I have learned to take the embarrassment and turn it into empowerment instead. I wanted to help students like myself recognize their worth, power, and how far they have come just by being here. Being a first-generation student is not something to be ashamed of, but something to put on your job application. It is a trophy to hold and a plaque that says, “I did it!”
I hope that my blog posts help other first-gen students around the world feel ambitious and powerful, because we can change the world.
About Irelyn
Hometown: Smithtown, NY
Programs of study: Elementary Education and Psychology
Interests: Lacrosse, pilates, yoga, music, writing, reading, spending time with loved ones, volunteering, and mentoring other first-gen students, of course!
Blog Posts
How to Deal with Burn-out as a College Student (Feb 27, 2024)
POV: You are a First-Generation Student (Oct 26, 2023)
Past Bloggers
Dealing with Senioritis (Apr 29, 2022)
My Goal for 2022 (Jan 26, 2022)
My College Search and Selection Process (Oct 26, 2021)
What I am Excited/Anxious About This Semester (Sep 29, 2021)
Budgeting in College (Mar 29, 2021)
Letters of Recommendation (Nov 2, 2020)
Persistence, Motivation, and Resilience (Dec 7, 2020)
How It Started and How It’s Going (Nov 23, 2020)
First-Gen College Student and First-Gen American Intertwined (Nov 9, 2020)
Networking Challenges with COVID-19 (Oct 28, 2020)
Summer is Over and It’s a Struggle (Oct 11, 2019)
How to Make the Most of Your Summer Break! (May 31, 2019)
Independence is Not All It Seems (Apr 30, 2019)
Sometimes It’s Difficult, but It’s Never Impossible (Mar 20, 2019)
February…The Month of Self Love (Feb 28, 2019)
The Value of Goals and SMART Goal Setting (Feb 6, 2019)
Successful Tips for Stress Free Finals! (Dec 29, 2018)